I connect my ipod and iphone to my laptop and itunes does nothing,
its not listed in my devices in itunes.
I have the latest update's.
I have followed all the guids and they dont work,
they dont even show up under my computer.
but they still get charged.
iOS: Device not recognized in iTunes for Windows
I would start with
Removing and reinstalling iTunes, QuickTime, and other software components for Windows Vista or Windows 7
Removing and Reinstalling iTunes, QuickTime, and other software components for Windows XP
Run this to help if it identifies the cause
iTunes for Windows: Device Sync Tests
Have you tried on another computer to help determine if you have a computer or iPod problem?
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