I have been using the Remote app on my iPhone 4 top successfully control my Apple TV (2nd gen) for a while now after my Apple TV remote dropped in the toilet and stopped working! Now my Apple TV needs to update (Update Now/Update Later) and when I try to connect the Remote app to the Apple TV the Remote app just spins continuously and never finds the Apple TV, therefor not allowing me to select "Update Now". What to do? Do I now need to buy an Apple Remote? Hoping I dont have to.