My phone won't come on

Have you tried resetting it? HOld down the sleep and home keys until you see the silver apple. let it reboot and try again.

Have you tried to swap out the charger? Maybe your charger isn't good or isn't working right and that could be the issue.

SInce you are using the phone, have you tried to charge plugged into the USB on your computer? I believe that phones will charge via usb. That coudl be a way to determine if the power brick is malfunctioning. (Although since it charges your wife's fine then it may be an issue with the port on your phone. THat port is just tiny bits of metal covering plastic and can be damaged)

I'd make an appointment at your local apple store and have them look at it. If you can't get satisfaction locally then at the top of this page is the link to support, and then start a ticket online and see what else they can do for you.

Also, this is the iPad forum and your issue is for the phone, so I'm going to ask the mods to move your post, so that's what happened to it if you can't find it.

This is actually the iPhone forums, not the iPad =)