m4r is in "Tones" but NOT in sounds->ringtones
I'm really regretting this whole iPhone purchase thing.
So after hours of reserarch, I finally got an mp3 converted to an m4r. I clicked it and played it with iTunes. I dropped the file into "Automatically Add to iTunes." It made a "Tone" tabe the the file is there. I've syched and re-synched and rerereresynched.
It's not showing up under settings->sounds->ringtones.
Whyohgodwhyhaveyouforsakenme.
iPhone 4