Okay im kinda new and not smart. So i have an ipod with a completely different library and itunes account, and i want to sync it to my windows laptop/my current itunes library. i dont want to delete songs from my laptop or from the ipod. Is this possible some way? i hope this makes some sense
You will need to use third party software such as TouchCopy.
Once the music is in your current library, you can sync your iPod. It will erase the iPod if it is your first time syncing to this library but as long as everything is in the iTunes library it will put it back on.