I cannot find a way to up date my iPad because there isn't an item on the menu for it. No one seems to be able to get round this my iPad model is MC 769B and is only 14MB but surely I should be able to update to an iOS 5 or 6?
iPad, 14MB
I assume from your post that you are on v 4.x.x (somethign prior to 5). Over the air updates were not intriduced until iOS 5. To update your device you will need to connect it to a computer running a current version of itunes.
There is an answer on another Apple Support Thread:
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/5256984?answerId=22797758022#22797758022
How can I update my IPad when there is no item for it on the menu of my ipad
