i bought songs on my phone but they wont show up on my computer

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Try deleting the problematic file (electing to remove original file if/when prompted) and then re-downloading the file from the iTunes store.

You can re-download content purchased from the iTunes store (availability varies depending on location) using the purchased option from the Quick Links section in the top right corner of the iTunes homepage in your iTunes application on your computer.

Didn't see option to redownload purchases. I found the link but the songs I recently purchased are not showing up.