iCal appointments so alerts work across time zones?
does anyone happen to know definitively if there is a way to get my iCAL appointments to work across time zones? the last time i took a trip to the east coast (i set the appointment while in CST) i almost missed my flight because iCal decided to adjust this time by the amount that the time zone had changed and instead of alerting me 2 hours in advance it alerted me 1 hour in advance.
i have been trying to solve this off and on for about a year and i have read a number of threads on this and i think it is making me cranky.
does anyone know if this can be set so it actually works (i.e. i set and see an event at the correct time and i get the alert at the correct time even if i actually go to the time zone that the event is in). i mean, i am talking to a lot of people that are intending on empirically testing this by actually setting the events in various ways and actually going on a trip (i also tried this) but i cannot figure out and for some reason i cannot remember which settings i used to get this to work (i think i got it to work). basically it is so confusing an issue i would like to have some independent confirmation that it can (or can't) actually work and then some steps on how to get it to work would be great as well. of course independent verification that it does not work would be great too.
or alternatively a good app that can get me this functionality would be great as well.
THANKS
MacBook Pro, OS X Mountain Lion (10.8.1)