K.S.
Thank you, you have solved my problem
I downloaded the RCDefaultApp using firefox, (I downloaded MisFox too but haven't looked at it), and the pref pane works great.
If i figure out how to fix Safari without re-installing my OS I'll post.
Thank you everyone for your help, I also see that there are browsers out there that I had never even heard of... I look forward to testing these out!