Can't get Dell U2711 to work consistently at 2560x1440
I can not, for the life of me, get one of my dual external monitors to correctly detect. Sometimes, it works great, and then, for whatever reason it gets mis-recongized coming out of sleep and then I'm stuck for weeks at a time with it wrong.
Specs:
Retina MBP 15 Inch (first gen) 2.6/16gb paired with GeForce GT650M 1024MB.
Dell U2711 Connected via Mini-DisplayPort to DisplayPort on the Dell U2711
Dell U2410 Connected via HDMI->DVI Adapter then to DVI on the U2410.
Retina Mac is running in 1680x1050 Equivalent.
Ideal resolution for the U2711 is 2560x1440.
Ideal resolution for the U2410 is 1920x1200 (in portrait)
I never have any problems with the U2711 when connected to my windows PC via Dual-Link DVI. The problems are only with my Mac.
Sometimes When I go into Displays, it shows 2 Options: 1080p and 2560x1440. Even when I select 2560x1440, it just reverts back to 1080p.
Other times, it never lists 2560x1440, and thus of course I can't select the native resolution. When I go into System Information (when it's not working) it shows the U2711 as a TV (and sometimes I have over-scan/under-scan control).
How do I fix this? I've tried PRAM/NVRAM reset. I've tried both of the Thunderbolt ports. Once it stops working, it basically requires me to re-format the machine to get it to work again, which is a non-trivial problem as it's a work computer, and I work out-of-state from my Headquarters.
Please advise, it's comical that I can't get a modern laptop to consistently use the native resolution of a $1,000 monitor.
MacBook Pro with Retina display, OS X Mountain Lion (10.8.4)