how would I know if U-verse had been added to my service plan on any one of my three numbers
You would call AT&T
Uverse is a home TV/Internet service offered by AT&T. It has nothing to do with cell phones.
U-verse is an AT&T product for television cable servcie. You could log into your AT&T account online and check, or call their customer service.
what is uverse
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