Using FaceTime http://support.apple.com/kb/ht4319
Troubleshooting FaceTime http://support.apple.com/kb/TS3367
The Complete Guide to FaceTime + iMessage: Setup, Use, and Troubleshooting
Troubleshooting FaceTime and iMessage activation
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Using FaceTime and iMessage behind a firewall
iOS: About Messages
Set up iMessage
iOS 6 and OS X Mountain Lion: Link your phone number and Apple ID for use with FaceTime and iMessage
How to Set Up & Use iMessage on iPhone, iPad, & iPod touch with iOS
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Setting Up Multiple iOS Devices for iMessage and Facetime
FaceTime and iMessage not accepting Apple ID password
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Unable to use FaceTime and iMessage with my apple ID
How to Block Someone on FaceTime
My Facetime Doesn't Ring
Send an iMessage as a Text Message Instead with a Quick Tap & Hold
To send messages to non-Apple devices, check out the TextFree app https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/text-free-textfree-sms-real/id399355755?mt=8
How to Send SMS from iPad
You can check the status of the FaceTime/iMessage servers at this link.
When I go into iMessage/FaceTime, it sakes me to enter my Apple ID, password. It then takes a while, then says ... I message activation. Could not sign in. Please check your network connection and try again.
Has been like this for a month and 1 week. Have called apple 3 times. They say to reset network settings, back up and reset to factory settings. Have not tried to back up yet. No luck other wise. Very frustrating.