The Mavericks iPhone Calendar/Contacts issue is as stupid as it gets for Apple....Its like not pulling down your pants while going to the bathroom....Its total extortion to buy iCloud once you eat your opening 5GBs.....Anyway
my work around.........
When I get a gig or Dr. appt...whatever
If I happen to enter it first in my MacBrookPro first....
I E-MAIL IT TO MYSELF
With the calendar entry in the subject line...
Exactly like this: MTG@NYC3PM 12/28...Using Subject Line only is enough...I think the space between the appt and the date is important.
I download the email to myself. The date is in blue...
To go to my iPhone with a sync in mind...(Apple should call it the kitchen sink)
I tap and hold the blue date...then choose create new event...It loads into iCal... and I tweak it
I delete the date at the end of the event title, in edit mode....I leave the time in, because I'm an "all day" man...I prefer the filled-in color look, and go by the time in the Event Title....I've always titled my events this way anyway because of the look. But it can be tweaked as you like....Yeah, it *****...but it works for me...
Conversely, if the event I get starts in the iPhone....Same thing as above...and E-Mail it to myself...
when I get the email on my laptop....forget the blue..I put the event in the body of the e-mail.. .I just mouse over the date to the drop down menu, and Add to Calendar, and tweak accordingly...
Cheers!
Brian