So I need to make another update. The items above helped but didn't fix the problem completely. This may be the magic bullet. I removed the items from the original post from the registry and replaced them with this...
This seams to work well even after days of putting the computer to sleep. It's not supposed to work under SMB2 but so fare I left the SMB settings to default. One thing that may be a side effect is I can't map Windows to the Mac server share anymore. I don't know if this is because of the changes I have made or a coincidence and the Mac Share is acting up. Either way I just used the share that VMWare supplies and all is working good.
Sorry for the updates but I hope this help others get this fixed.