Seem to have solved it.
Thanks for the pointers appleaday8!
iPhone 4s with iOS 8.4.1 - WiFi suddenly greyed out.
Tried overheating hack as shown in video's and it works! Had to do it twice though.
Second time I tried, I let it overheat a bit longer and I shutdown iphone before putting it in the freezer to cool down.
A quick overview of what fixed it in my case:
1. Overheat the iPhone whilest using a blowdryer (Yes a blow dryer ...see video's for more details)
This took around 5 minutes, during that time I pressed home button every other minute to see if the overheated message was already there.
when it showed, I let it overheat a minute more.
(First time I overheated the phone, message showed by it self though.)
2. Then I shutdown the phone, be careful not to burn your hands!
3. Then I put the iphone in a plastic bag and let it i the freezer for around 12-14 minutes.
4. After freezer I restarted the iphone and WiFi wasn't enabled, but I could now enable it again (Wifi button wasn't greyed out no more).
5. After enabling WiFi I restarted iphone again by clicking and holding home and on/off button simultaniously for as long a it take to shut down completely.
6. After restart WiFi was enabled and working again.
Not sure if this a permanent fix or just lasting a short while, have to wait and see.