ok.... So I am trying to set up the Remote app on my ipad. I followed all the troubleshooting instructions listed on the apple website, but it still wont connect.... help??
I'm not sure if this is the troubleshooting instructions you were referring to, but if not, you may find the following article helpful:
Apple Support: Remote app for iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch can't connect to iTunes or Apple TV
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