itunes syncs ALL videos even though I only have a few checked

There is no choice anymore to sync only checked videos/movies.

It just says "Sync Movies" Then I have left the box that says "include all movies" unchecked.

There are up/down arros on the same line where it says "include all movies" but the arrows are grayed out and so it can not be changed to "select only checked movies/videos"

Ideas?

I can access the arrows now but none of them show the choice to "download only checked movies/videos". I've got lots of available space on my ipad but itunes says not enough space available because it keeps trying to sync all or none. I simply want to put SOME movies onto my ipad but not ALL. It should be easy, right? I should be able to choose "sync selected videos/movies" but there is no option to do that.

Help?

It doesn't ever say how many movies it will sync but it tries to sync all of them even though only 4 out of about 20 are checked as the ones I want to sync. So it won't load any because it thinks I don't have room for 20, when in fact, I only wanted to load 4.

Thanks!

Thank you! I did try that the first time you mentioned it. I do appreciate the advice and it was very helpful. I did set that but it still tries to load ALL of my videos, not just the ones I have checked. And, now about 1/2 of my movies have disappeared! I have no idea how THAT hapened? How do I get them back?