What doesn't the terminal let you do? Were you able to copy the kext file into the systems library (/Systems/Library/Extensions; this is not the library in your home folder!). The commands in the terminal are to change the access rights and the ownership of the new driver from you to the system (root:wheel). I suspect that the copying of the new driver didn't go right either, otherwise you would probably not have any wifi at all at the moment because the system would not be allowed to use the driver anymore.
You could do everything through the terminal:
1) First download and extract the new driver to your Desktop. You should get a file called "IO80211Family.kext" on your Desktop.
2) Now open a terminal window (in Finder go to: Applications > Utilities > Terminal)
3) Save your original driver to your Desktop in the folder "DriverBck" using the following two commands in the terminal (line by line; enter in between):
sudo mkdir ~/Desktop/DriverBck (the terminal will ask for your password after you press enter)
sudo cp -R /System/Library/Extensions/IO80211Family.kext ~/Desktop/DriverBck/IO80211Family.kext
4) Now only if the previous step went OK; copy the new driver from your Desktop to the Systems Library:
sudo cp -R ~/Desktop/IO80211Family.kext /System/Library/Extensions/
5) Change the access rights abnd ownership of the new driver (line by line; enter in between):
sudo chmod -R 755 /System/Library/Extensions/IO80211Family.kext
sudo chown -R root:wheel /System/Library/Extensions/IO80211Family.kext
sudo touch /System/Library/Extensions/
6) Reboot your system:
sudo reboot