How do I sync iCal with my iPhone 5?

I want to be able to add events on my iCal on my iPhone 5 and it to sync to my iCal on my Macbook pro when I plug it in through the iPhone 5 cord.

It says I can sync with mobile me but mobile me doesn't work anymore. My macbook pro is from 2009 so it doesn't have iCloud on it.

How can I sync iCal with my laptop and my iphone?

Thanks.