I want to be able to choose which services are on the Primary & Secondry accounts.

I want the following setup:

Shared with Family on one iCloud account (All of our devices shared as a family) ie: Family@icloud.com
Photostream going from all devices to one account (phones, ipads, computers and AppleTV's)
Find My iPhone/Mac (For family security in one handy spot)

On my own private iCloud account: (These are User Specific features) ie: Me@icloud.com

Keychain

iMessage

Facetime

Contacts

Reminders

Notes

Safari

Documents & Data

Back to My Mac

But it seems that Apple thinks Keychain, Safari, Documents & Data, Back to my Mac are FAMILY features and cannot be seperated from the account the other account that holds Photostream and Find My Mac.

Does this seem silly or am I doing it wrong??