I cannot keep calendar events - how do i change this , it should be so simple.
If you normally sync to your computer via iTunes there is a setting in iTunes for how many days back you keep calendar events.
If you don't normally sync to your computer I'm not sure if there is a way to keep calendar events around longer.
I'm not certain if this will do it, but in your iPad you can try going to:
Settings>Mail, Contacts, Calendars>Sync and then choose "All events".
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