I have two macs and my wife put some photos on the other so I want to merge them. How do I do this so I dont lose any or duplicate any. I have ILM but it didnt work last time I tried.
Well IPLM is the best way (the only way) unless you own Aperture and have the current version of both iPhotoa nd Aperture
what "didn't work"? Have you contacted IPLM support? It works very well and has good support
If you have Aperture 3.3 or later and iPhoto 9.3 or later you can merge libraries with Aperture.
Otherwise the only way to merge Libraries is with the paid ($20) version of iPhoto Library Manager
which is the better way to do it? Aperture or IPLM?
There isn't one. If you have Aperture already, then I would use that. If not, well Library Manager is considerably less expensive.
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