Well I am most certainly hard to please, (Ask my children). However I am not the gamer in the family, my kids are so you would really need to discuss all that with them. I just passed on what my kids told me.
As far as a 4 year old DELL playing the game better, well seeing is believing, I believe the difference in our experiences is that I got to see. The DELL is an Inspiron 8200 that was the best available at the time with max RAM, the hard drive was purchased seperately and spins at 7200 rpm, you can get them from Apricorn. I believe this is a faster spin rate than the Apple's but I am not sure. It has a 2.19 ghz processor and 1 gig of RAM according to the System Properties. The Hard Drive is 60gigs and is 45% full.
My daughter's machine is custom made for her, and it is really unfair to compare any iMac to what she has, or to her ability to tweak computers.
iMacs are RAM hogs, and the performance difference between this computer with 512 RAM and 2 gigs is very substantial. Once again you would have had to see the difference.
I am still a neophyte where computers are concerned, and really have no idea if my iMac has this "universal patch" you are referring to, but I will call Apple and see if I have it, and if not if they can talk me through the download.
Because my daughter is rather expert in Linux I am fiddeling around with it, not Windows so I really don't know much about Boot Camp, et.al. or how a game would operate on it, It seems to me that it defeats the purpose of having an Apple.
If you want a Windows machine running Windows programs, with all the Windows vulnerabilities why not just buy a Window's PC? They are cheap enough that when you cost out the expense of buying an operating system, plus all the other things you need that come standard on most PCS it is just about as cheap (Given the value of your time as well as money.) to buy a PC as it is to go through all the rigamarole of installing a seperate Windows OS on an iMac.
I believe the jury is still out on the security threat to the Mac from virus installation on the PC side. However, the last time I talked to a Mac tech he did say that if the virus had the capability to take down the whole hard drive, then the Mac side might very well go down with it.
Once again I am not an expert in virus behavior, but those that are won't tell me that an iMac with a Windows OS is as safe as an iMac without the Windows.
Finally, staying on topic, there is the matter of all the peripherals that gamers use. These simply are not available for iMacs.
If you want to play games get a gaming machine. Don't use a pipe wrench to hammer a nail. You can do it, but the results won't be as good as if you used a hammer.
Doug