Mavericks contact syncing and editing distribution lists
I have always synced contacts between my iMac, iPhone, and iPad via iTunes (the old-fashioned way, via USB!). I just caught on to the fact that contacts aren't syncing via iTunes anymore, so I figured I'd join the 21st century and switch to iCloud syncing. I took a back-up of the contacts on my iMac first, thank goodness. I don't want all of the contacts on my iMac to sync to the iPhone and iPad. I understand that groups in the "On My Mac" account will not sync. But when I added my iCloud account in Contacts preferences, the "On My Mac" account disappears from the contacts left pane, where all my groups are (I can still see it in the Accounts tab of Contacts preferences). I ended up restoring removing the iCloud account from Contacts preferences and restoring contacts from the backup.
How can I sync only selected contact groups from my iMac to my iPhone and iPad via iCloud? Also, during the short period that I had all my contacts in the "iCloud" account in contacts, there was no "Edit Distribution list" option in the contextual menu. After I removed the iCloud account from Contacts preferences and restored contacts from the backup, I can once again select the "edit distribution list" option.
Suggestions?
Faye
iMac, OS X Mavericks (10.9.1)