i cant access my security question to reset

Call apple,they'll walk you through it

account security

Please call apple @ 1-800-692-7753 in USA

ask for the account security team

you may want to add a credit card to your iTunes account before calling; so they will have a way to verify your identity.

Peace, Clyde

check # for your country

http://support.apple.com/kb/HE57

Can you help me with that