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I do not get the same options in Safari at the top right when I open up a PDF.
The boxed up arrow is on the left and when touched has an option "add to reading list" but no mention of ibooks
If I open the PDF from Chrome browser, "open in...." Briefly Appears across the browser, but again this does not appear in iBooks.
All apps are up to date.