I am totally confused because Itunes ask for my number
All I care about are my pictures of my grandkids and family and some movies to watch not to buy or save. So what do I needto do to get just things I want and not all these confusing aps.
Setup HomeSharing on the computer and add the pictures desired to the shared folder. http://support.apple.com/kb/HT4352
As for the apps, hide the ones that you do not care about by going to Settings > Restrictions
I would really like to talk to someone if that is even possible.
Okay, pick up the phone and call someone.
These are user to user support forums. No one here is going to call you. If you really want to talk to someone on the phone about it, contact Apple Customer Support via the "Contact Us" link at the bottom.