I'm afraid that speaking to a US ISP is rather chancy. I may get a person in southeast Asia who will almost certainly not help resolve the issue. They would claim that the fact that it works on 2 other devices means that it's not an ISP problem—it must be a MacOS problem on this oarticular Mac.
There are many Discussions threads on this password problem: Quite a few experience it, but I've seen no one who has definitively solved it. Some report that Mail mysteriously resumed working, but usually only temporarily. My wife's mail account works on both my Macbook and also on her iPad, but not on her iMac—this happened overnight: i.e., it was working when she finished using it the other evening; iMac slept overnight; next morning: Password "hades" (stupidly, one can't even write the standard English word "****" — HELLO!.
Incidentally, at first, it was only the smtp server that asked but wouldn't accept the password. The popmail.com sent mail in, but only for a short time. Since then, no inmail, no outmail. It's extremely frustrating. Apple must know about it but clearly doesn't have a general fix. That's why they have Discussions: so that users have to solve their problems.