apple will not merge your accounts.... you will need to pick one and use it and change password..if you can't pick one then just make a whole new account and just let the others float away into the apple space.. but take out the credit card info so that shady husband can't use it... you can google "manage my apple id" and it will let you log in and change stuff.
Hi, as a follow up to Hairistotle's question, is it possible to transfer purchased apps and songs from one account to another? I'm thinking that Hairistotle would want to remove any purchased stuff from these shady accounts and move them to the new account. In my case I have two accounts and it's just more a pain to manage. Thanks.