So is their only a certain kind of headphones that will work with it?
No, any headphones will work fine.
I don't understand why the ones that come with the i pod dont work.[
Because they are broken.
I really don't want to use the other headphones
If you have had the iPod less than one year, they are still under warranty.
If you live near an Apple store, take them in there.
Or you can go here ->
Online iPod Service request (Used for iPod headphones also)
and fill out a request for new headphones.