Can't find air play to connect my Bose sound link air can anyone help ios7 I think

The speakers and your iPad must be active on the same WiFi network before the AirPlay icon will appear. Have you followed the directions from Bose to set up WiFi on the SoundLink?

http://worldwide.bose.com/downloads/en/web/bose_soundlink_air_download/page.html

OK, then perhaps this troubleshooting article will help:

http://support.apple.com/kb/TS4215

Regards.

Read here, aellis1519's post:

https://discussions.apple.com/thread/4311339?start=105&tstart=0