Q: how do you un disable ipod touch?

You posted In the wrong area as this is for iphone support, but check here for a solution: http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1212

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Forgotten Restrictions Passcode Help

            iPad,iPod,iPod Touch Recovery Mode

You will need to restore your device as New to remove a Restrictions passcode. Go through the normal process to restore your device, but when you see the options to restore as New or from a backup, be sure to choose New.

You can restore from a backup if you have one from BEFORE you set the restrictions passcode.

Also, see iTunes- Restoring iOS software.