Your advice saved me from throwing my computer at the wall. 😝
You seem like a smarter person than me, so here's a question.....
Why would anyone choose to want their junk mail stored on a server, thus making it come back on their mailbox???
Part of the reason I switched almost every device to apple was for "User friendliness" and the cloud.
However user friendly some things can be with apple, their cloud with endless options and sub options have me going mad!!!!
To have 4 devices (Ipad2 iPad 3 iPhone 6 and Macbook Pro) all on the same "wavelength" gets harder with every "upgrade" with their respective OS!!!
Between pictures, iWork, Videos, mail, and other things that are supposed to be made easier, I find it harder just trying to manage the endless options to try to get what I want to travel between all my devices!!! Old school emailing attachments were much easier IMO. Every "upgrade" Apple puts out has so many bugs i.e. Yosemite crashed my VPN access, Airdrop works between Mac to iPhone, but not iPhone to Mac. Airplay won't stream anymore to my appleTVs.....
Get back to being better than the alternative apple!!!!!!!!!!