AirPort Express is Bonjour Sleep Proxy but Wake on network access not working
I have a Mac mini (mid-2011) running 10.7.5. I used to have a AirPort Express - 1st gen wireless-N, but it is having problems with the power supply/overheating (a known issue that I intend to attempt to fix). I purchased a refurbished AirPort Express - 2nd gen wireless-N unit to replace the failing one. I have the new unit connected to my existing wireless network as a client. It's connecting using the 5 GHz band and WPA2. This is the way my Mac mini and iPad are connected too. AirPlay is working fine from both. I want to be able to wake my Mac mini to use iTunes Home Sharing, SSH and Screen Sharing, either with another Mac or my iPad. My understanding is that the AirPort Express operating as a Bonjour Sleep Proxy is supposed to enable me to do this.
The Bonjour Browser application on the Mac mini displays that the AirPort Express unit is on the network as a Bonjour Sleep Proxy and the Mac mini as a Home Sharing provider. However, when the Mac mini is asleep the iTunes library disappears from the network. The Scoutr app on my iPad shows that Home Sharing disappears as a Bonjour service on the network once the Mac mini goes to sleep. I've done extensive reading online and troubleshooting based on my findings, but so far I haven't found a solution. Here's what I've done:
-Disabled and re-enabled "Wake for network access" (multiple times)
-Rebooted Mac mini (multiple times)
-Updated AirPort Express to 7.6.4 (came with 7.6.3)
-Modified this plist: /System/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.apple.mDNSResponder.plist, in order to tell the Mac mini to use the network sleep proxy (based on http://stuartcheshire.org/SleepProxy/)
Added:
<string>-UseInternalSleepProxy</string>
<string>0</string>
-Tried using DHCP or Static IP address
-Set Service Order in Network preferences to the following: Wi-Fi, Ethernet, FireWire, Bluetooth DUN
-Switched to Automatic network profile and used DHCP on Wi-Fi connection
-Created new network profile and set all services except Wi-Fi to inactive
-Tried changing the darkwake behavior in this plist: /Library/Preferences/SystemConfiguration/com.apple.Boot.plist, even though I don't think it would make a difference since this Mac mini doesn't support Power Nap (Based on http://www.cnpbagwell.com/mac-os-x/bonjour-sleep-proxy)
Changed <string></string> to <string>darkwake=0</string>
I'm currently out of ideas. Is there a way to check what devices are registering with the Bonjour Sleep Proxy service on the AirPort Express? I have the installers for 10.8 and 10.9, but it looks like there are reports of this issue on those OS versions as well. I guess I'll give that a try when I have some time, but this should work just fine as is.
Mac mini, Mac OS X (10.7.5)