Q: i want unlock activation lock any one help meeeeeeeee

No

Did you buy this phone second-hand? If so and it is locked only the previous owner can unlock it - please see

http://support.apple.com/kb/ts4515

If you are unable to contact him you will not be able to use the phone.

If you locked it yourself but have forgotten the password follow the instructions in the page you came here from:

http://support.apple.com/kb/HT5818

I sympathize with your frustration, but the answer I gave you above, covering the two possibilities, is what the situation is, and there is no other answer.