Hello I have multiple digital downloads that i suggested to "download later" and now I can't find them anywhere. so where did hey go? did I loose them?

I saw your question first but found this answer that worked for me.

iTunes prefs > Store.

Tick Show iTunes in the Cloud purchases. (If you do not see this, log out of iTunes store then log back in).

Now view your movies and this should show up with a cloud icon next to it.

Click the cloud icon to download.