Hi there bbroad1,
You may find the information in the article below helpful.
iTunes 11 for Mac: Set up syncing for iPod, iPhone, or iPad
http://support.apple.com/kb/ph12113
Please be aware, depending on the version of OS X you have installed, you may not be able to sync calendars via iTunes.
OS X Mavericks
OS X Mavericks v10.9 and later do not use SyncServices. Instead, Mavericks supports sharing your information using several network-based and cloud-based solutions. If you want to sync your information across multiple devices and computers, you should use one or more of these methods. These include iCloud, CardDAV servers, CalDAV servers, and servers that utilize the Exchange ActiveSync protocol. via About SyncServices
-Griff W.