waiting for changes to be applied

This seems to be going on for 2 years now and getting progressively worse. I have a 64G iPhone 4s and the latest iTunes. I "believe' the issue occurs whenever I "modify" song data directly on the phone.

PLEASE fix this Apple!

PLEASE stop ignoring the issue!

PLEASE acknowledge the problem and commit to resolving it.

I'm very close to the end of my contract and abandoning Apple products completely. It would be a big change, but no less frustrating than wiping out my phone every 2-3 weeks to get my library in sync. That's no way to treat a loyal customer.