Hi Suhov and Bob and all.
At last, I am home again.
Then my Finder crashed every minute, took me an hour to find out that it this caused by GoogleDrive and had to uninstall GoogleDrive. Had to sync everything to another Cloud service.
OK, now this brain teaser: I still have the impression that that are two possible causes, the Mushkin Ram, or a software crap.
Not much to see in your original etrecheck list. It would be interesting to see a problem report.
What is a bit frustrating to see that there is so few on your main disk:
"Macintosh HD (disk0s2) / [Startup]: 749,3 GB (730,77 GB free)"
you have said that it is the original disk and that DiskUtility did not give any error except the canceled blocks.
Do you by any chance have system components or the user library moved on another disk? It can hardly be that everything is on your main disk (18.5GB). Did you ever use tools like CleanMyMac or Mackeeper, and the like, to "clean" your mac?
I think Bob was on the right track about the disk: a small chance that it is having some issues, but still.... To follow that thought, we do not need any disk tools for repair (like DiskWarrior), but we can do a scan with a tool that does more than read the s.m.a.r.t. data, I don't know any such tool. Lately there is a tool however on the Appstore that has new formulas built in that do a sort of health calculation, called DriveDx. It is paid software. From the developers website (binaryfruit.com/drivedx) you can download a trial, we do not need it but for one time only, so a trial is OK, we can uninstall it afterwards and no money lost.
Lex