Help consolidating library?
So I keep my library on an external drive conected to my Airport Extreme via USB due to it's size and my using a Macbook Air. This works fine. I also use iTunes Match for when I leave the house. The issue is when I leave the house if iTunes is open sometimes it defaults back to the normal library in the preferences. Further, when this happens every once in a while I won't notice and add new songs, and when I do so they are put on my Air's drive.
1) Can I prevent iTunes from ever going back to the default library location?
2) When I change the setting back to the external library I always have to let it consolidate FOREVER, but the songs are still on my Air drive and iTunes still reads them from there, not the external. Why does it not copy them over and correct the filepath?
3) How can I make it copy them over and correct the filepath?
I just want everything neat and tidy on my external. Help?
MacBook Air, OS X Mavericks (10.9)