frankly, I am seriously considering giving up on Icloud mail for similar reasons...additionally, I find that I constantly have to "re-sign" in, and sometimes it seems to take forever for the app to load...whereas gmail has been absolutely reliable. Of course then i am not too happy about the ads and some privacy invasion that come with it...I am not sure where all of this is going but I feel increasingly uneasy about the internet altogether. When Google Chrome came along, I happily abandoned Firefox, and historically never found Safari all that enticing.
Aside from the holy war theory re icloud not working with Chrome, I am getting a little impatient with the fact that Apple seems to be becoming larger and less responsive. This issue seems to have existed now for some time, a year or maybe more, and I have no idea if Apple even cares about it...no updates, no way of getting a note to the Empire...it occurred to me a few weeks ago that in less than a couple of decades our civilization has become almost totally dependent upon the internet...I sometimes wonder what would happen to us if suddenly it stopped working. Has anyone noticed that technology seems to solve one problem but then create others...space junk, nuclear waste, emissions, oil spills, on and on...sorry, starting to rant!! if you want icloud, you might be stuck with safari...package deal. and so just have icloud mail forwarded to some other deal like Zoho or gmail or ??? and dont use it at all.