Okay, I've done it. Thanks to your help, I FINALLY managed to install the two new memory cards. Was it worthwhile? I don't know yet, but I can't see any difference. I doubled my memory by increasing it from 4 to 8GBs, so you would expect to see some differences, but I don't see any so far. Maybe I will in time. In the meantime, I am really glad that I didn't try to "keep up with the Joneses" by paying $300+ to get the maximum memory of 28 GB. My additional 4GB cost about $50. That's quite reasonable for an experiment. $300 is not.
For people who have not installed memory cards and came here for support and information, I can say that their installation is easy, IF you can remove cards that need to be replaced, and IF you can get the new cards properly seated. I finally managed to do both, but it wasn't easy. I even called the company from whom I purchased the cards because I thought that I had received bad cards. I thought that because when I turned on the computer I only got intermittant beeps, so I thought that I would have to replace the new cards. That problem was fixed when I reseated the new cards. Finally, the new cards don't look the same as the cards already in the machine. I was worried about that, but the person I talked to said that different company's cards have different apearances. I guess she was right, because I'm typing this.