More likely than bad card/reader is bad workflow or lame hardware.
1) Do not import direct to Aperture. Copy the card contents to a folder on a hard drive, back that up, physically disconnect the camera card. Only then import to Aperture from one of the hard drives. Do not reformat the card until after backup and verification of all images in Aperture.
2) Some of us import in Projects sizes of no more than ~500 images per Project. For a larger shoot I would have Projects named 140419_Jones_Wed_A, 140419_Jones_Wed_B, 140419_Jones_Wed_C, etc. and use an Album to include all the 140419_Jones_Wed images.
3) Verify that no drive is more than ~70% full and that you have at least 8 GB RAM.
HTH
-Allen