Hi Orangeagle,
How long did you wait when you saw the iTunes indicator before you started messing with your phone? The reason I ask is because if the phone was just going through the various processes it goes through to update, then you may have interferred with the update. Did you wait, say 20 minutes or so to see if the device was finished turning off and on, restarting, downloading, and installing?
I'm not trying to be snarky here. Just trying to figure out if a lot of this is not being caused by folks not letting the device go through the entire update process without interferring. I updated my phone today, and it turned off and back on at least twice, reset at least once, and then turned off at the end of the process for at least 5 mintues before my Home screen redisplayed, indicating that it was completely done. This is not abnormal. The device just needs to be left alone until it has completed the update, and I think many people are not letting that happen.
Would appreciate any info you can provide.
Cheers,
GB