I forgot my apple security questions how do I reset them without contacting apple?

You can't. They wouldn't be security questions if they could be bypassed without Apple verifying your identity.

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How to reset your Apple ID security questions

• Go to appleid.apple.com and click on the blue button that says 'Manage Your Apple ID'.
• Log in with your Apple ID and password. If you have forgotten your Apple ID password, go to iforgot.apple.com first to reset your password with a password recovery email.
• Go to the Password & Security section on the left side. Then underneath the security questions click on the link that says 'Forgot your answers? Send reset security info email to [email]'. This will generate an automated e-mail that will allow you to reset your security questions.

If that doesn't work, or there is no rescue email link available, then you must contact Apple:

• click on 'Temporary Support PIN' that is in the bottom left side, and generate a 4-digit PIN for the Apple Account Security Advisor you will be contacting later.
• Next, go to getsupport.apple.com. If you see a message that says 'There are no products registered to this Apple ID, simply click on 'See all products and services'.
• Choose 'More Products & Services', then 'Apple ID'.
• A new page will open. Choose 'Other Apple ID Topics', then 'Forgotten Apple ID Security Questions'.
• Click the blue 'Continue' button.
• Select the contact option that suits your needs best.

The above information quoted with gratitude from TJBUSMC1973, another user in these forums.

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Regards.