Problem updating software - Now my phone is not working at all!!!

Hi

I went to update my software on my iphone this morning. It started working then suddenly came up with an image to connect to iTunes.

I connected my phone to my laptop and my iTune said it needed to be restored, i started to do this and then a message came up saying the devise is eligible.

My phone is still showing connect to iTunes and i cant do anything at all.

Please help.

Thanks

Sue