Sorry Gail I didn't realize I was logged into my other account but I did respond to ya;)
Hey Gail no I didn't think from reading apples articles that I needed to have them do this, I did take a snapshot on the device of their info, but just my luck I FORGOT to send it!:/ I especially wouldn't have thought this would ever be an issue with my 4s that I've had for a year or more:/ they made me an appt for the apple store so I guess we'll see what happens tomorrow, if it would've shown up on iCloud online they could've helped but since it said offline I was screwed.. I didn't even know a device could be reset without entering the info, and I didn't encounter a problem there, OR with the older 1 when I went from iOS 6.1.3 to iOS 7.03 and 7.0.6 only when I updated to iOS 7.1.1 one thing they did say is the way I did it, I always thought doing a restore and update while in DFU mode was best but they said this could've caused it:/ I thought that after reading was only an issue when you tried to do that with a device that wasn't already reset because that's what I think people did at some point to get around something or rather, but the device I had just got was completely erased of all settings and data which you aren't supposed to be able to do without their iCloud and find my iPhone(FMIP) being deleted off the phone and for FMIP to be turned off and I made sure the phone erased which according to Apples support article ht5661 on what to do before selling or giving your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch erasing the device from the handset should be erased and removed from your account, this is quoted from that article..
If you still have your iOS device
Before you sell or give away your iOS device, make sure that you've removed all of your personal information. Follow these steps to protect your data and get your device to its factory default state for the new owner:
Back up your device.
Go to Settings > General > Reset, then tap Erase All Content and Settings.
This will completely erase your device and turn off iCloud, iMessage, FaceTime, Game Center, and other services.
If you're using iOS 7 and have Find My iPhone turned on, your Apple ID and password will be required. After you provide your password, the device will be erased and removed from your account so that the next owner can activate it.
Contact your carrier for guidance on transferring service to the new owner.
When the device is turned on for the first time by the new owner, Setup Assistant will guide them through the setup process.