Q: verification email

If you do not receive a verification email after signing in at

My Apple ID, you need to contact the Account Security team- only they will be able to help you. See this webpage on how to contact Apple Support in your country: There are either telephone numbers given or an email form:

     Apple ID: Contacting Apple for help with Apple ID account security

Explain, that you need help with an account security problem.

You can also try to email the iTunes Support using this form:https://ssl.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html