hi i need to help from apple

Apple is not here

This is a user to user forum to help each other

If you want help then state your problem

Allan

Read http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1212

I will tell you now that it requires a restore.

I don't know of any way to do it without a restore.

What do you have against a restore anyway?

Allan

You have to restore, there's no other way.

You can not unlock the phone without restoring it if you forgot the passcode.

There is no other option. If your data are very important I'm sure you backed up to your computer, iCloud or both regularly. You can restore the most recent backup once you have restored iOS to remove the passcode.

Then you should have backed it up before you locked yourself out.