Not sure if this helps but this worked for me.
1. Have your computer and other monitor both on and connected.
2. If you're having the same problem I had, there is no arrangements tab in display.
3. Disconnect the display cord from your macbook.
4. Hopefully your macbook goes dark for a second before resuming display*
5. Now make sure Display is on your screen through system preferences. Then plug the display cord back into your macbook.
6. My experience: the screen went black again for a couple seconds, and when it resumed the arrangements tab was miraculously back!
Hope this helps.
* I don't think my screen went black every time I disconnected when it first started not working. Eventually it started going black and that's when it started working again.